tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post6338962427897325574..comments2024-03-28T11:44:31.056-07:00Comments on A Joyful Cottage: Starting OverA Joyful Cottagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comBlogger53125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-72009701810336223442020-08-06T17:27:31.409-07:002020-08-06T17:27:31.409-07:00So sorry you have to go through this, Nancy. All t...So sorry you have to go through this, Nancy. All the best as you heal through this new journey. ♥A Whole Lotta Magichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15416878913961474994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-16539834076541037272020-05-13T07:44:14.465-07:002020-05-13T07:44:14.465-07:00I went back in your posts to see what prompted you...I went back in your posts to see what prompted your life change, I'm sorry I missed this, life has been kind of nuts and I fell off the blog wagon for a while. I'm so sorry you are going through this, the D word was one of the most stressful periods of my life, threw me right into menopause and actually curled my hair - not kidding. Be strong, this too shall pass....and living alone is so peaceful. My sweetie and I have been together ten years (since my divorce) and we still have separate homes - it works for us! We have dinner together every evening (unless I tell him I need a night to myself) and he stays here on weekends. That's fine, I'm quite happy with our arrangement, I never wanted to get married again after going through the pain of a divorce. Sending you hugs and prayers - be strong. Debbie - Mountain Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18401931842031353732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-91751556165921178572020-04-20T17:00:38.317-07:002020-04-20T17:00:38.317-07:00OH, Nancy, I have been out of touch for so long th...OH, Nancy, I have been out of touch for so long that I am truly shocked and sorry for what you are going through! I do not get any emails from blogs I subscribe to anymore so I have to rely on my memory to go to my blog (that I don't post on anymore) to see if there is anything new. I read your latest post and had to search back to see what is going on. So happy to hear you are leaning on the Lord to get through all of this because, really, that is all we have. I call it "standing still" and waiting on Him to work things out. Actually it is very peaceful being in that place. So nice for you to be with your family. I know the Lord has something special for you in His time. xoxoAnnMarie aka Vintage Junkie aka NaNahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01969507879772949374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-14116273257927662472020-04-11T02:37:16.042-07:002020-04-11T02:37:16.042-07:00Hello, Nancy, from Newfoundland, Canada. Sending ...Hello, Nancy, from Newfoundland, Canada. Sending you a warm embrace & best wishes. You are strong & such an inspiration to others. I know you will find a new & brighter path in time. Blessings to you & your family at Eastertime & always. Love, LindaLindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11487070786883019979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-92177184482177536742020-04-09T09:21:56.434-07:002020-04-09T09:21:56.434-07:00Oh, I'm so glad you left this comment! It'...Oh, I'm so glad you left this comment! It's always special when I find out someone beyond the USA follows A Joyful Cottage. It makes our world seem so much smaller. Thank you for your kind and encouraging words. God bless you! Hugs.A Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-28009991568922027712020-04-09T00:06:12.068-07:002020-04-09T00:06:12.068-07:00Sending you hugs from an avid reader from the Phil...Sending you hugs from an avid reader from the Philippines.🤗 Thank you for being brave Ms.Nancy. Can't wait for your new entries. You inspire us.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10565007116235444579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-55508026173739049322020-04-07T17:52:08.522-07:002020-04-07T17:52:08.522-07:00Recognizing Jesus’s power in our life is key to ...Recognizing Jesus’s power in our life is key to everything. All we need to do is trust in that. You are inspiring. My very best to you !Susan~aredheadonthegohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07939067358467559651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-35611872185916620582020-04-07T11:24:27.789-07:002020-04-07T11:24:27.789-07:00Nancy, I'm so sorry that you are going through...Nancy, I'm so sorry that you are going through this right now and I'm saying prayers for you, of course. I know it's not always easy to share things that aren't pretty here in blogland, but I'm so glad you did. It gives us, your community, the opportunity to support you, plus you've given us the very personal gift of your experience, which you've handled with such grace. You're such a gifted writer, your words are so eloquent , honest and brave. I just know that they're helping others who are going through similar relationship experiences and those of us who are just finding it hard to be brave during these unsettling times. Your words of faith and hope and moving forward one day at a time, of finding joy in simple things and holding on to dreams of a brighter future in times of sadness are so inspiring. I'm happy you're surrounded by family and wish you nothing but peaceful, happy days on this new journey, my friend...and hugs, lots and lots of hugs. xo Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-21096458460673709992020-04-07T08:28:51.855-07:002020-04-07T08:28:51.855-07:00Susan, thanks for the uplifting comment. In truth,...Susan, thanks for the uplifting comment. In truth, without the love and strength I receive from my Lord I wouldn't be able to even consider joy an option, much less "spearhead" it. I've had many, many heartaches in my life starting from when I was a little girl, and I am here today only by the grace of God. If it weren't for the fact that He has always been there for me, always constant, always faithful, I would have ended my life long ago. He is the reason I have joy! God bless you. Warm hugs, NancyA Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-91800020998455889962020-04-07T04:48:28.525-07:002020-04-07T04:48:28.525-07:00Nancy it’s pretty amazing that you can still spear...Nancy it’s pretty amazing that you can still spearhead joy in the midst of divorce and a pandemic. You are going to be just fine. For now your faithful readers are here, ready to support you. This time is going to pass and I think we will all be amazed at our personal transformations. Just keep goin girl!Susan~aredheadonthegohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07939067358467559651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-53450023125424906032020-04-06T23:28:05.661-07:002020-04-06T23:28:05.661-07:00Poignantly and eloquently sharing your heart is a ...Poignantly and eloquently sharing your heart is a brave thing to do Nancy. Thank you for baring your heart, and sharing the journey you have been on. I can't imagine how difficult all these moves have been for you, and this last one being the most difficult, yet I am so grateful to hear how the Lord undertook and has shown your worth in Him, which is most valuable of all. You are in my prayers, and I pray that this most difficult time will also be a very sweet time of healing, and precious memories with your children and grandchildren. How wonderful that you are there to help out in their hour of need as well. God does all things well. You are in my prayers dear one, and I am comforted knowing you feel the protection of His great love around you.. and He has a plan for you! Much love to you sweet friend! Marilyn @ MountainTopSpicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00600290895531484438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-61458356551516192132020-04-06T20:35:15.562-07:002020-04-06T20:35:15.562-07:00Marilyn, thank you for sharing your own experience...Marilyn, thank you for sharing your own experience. I can relate to what you said about praying and seeking the Lord's direction. Divorce is serious business and should, in my opinion, be a last resort. I'm so happy for you that your marriage didn't end in a divorce, that you were able to work through the difficulties and finally come to a place of acceptance and appreciation for one another. That is a great blessing. Praise God! Hugs.A Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-31556191809667686112020-04-06T19:03:10.518-07:002020-04-06T19:03:10.518-07:00I appreciate your kind words, Angela. Yes, I agree...I appreciate your kind words, Angela. Yes, I agree, it's a good idea to stay with family for now. I'm enjoying being part of their lives on a daily basis. Take care. Hugs,A Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-24725449837050202082020-04-06T17:12:36.053-07:002020-04-06T17:12:36.053-07:00Thank you for sharing with honesty and openness Na...Thank you for sharing with honesty and openness Nancy. It's a good idea to stay with family for now. Stay safe and keep a foot forward! Wishing you the best!Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14795340509123902948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-39629592394013026892020-04-06T14:43:48.555-07:002020-04-06T14:43:48.555-07:00Nancy, I was so glad to see your post, and so sorr...Nancy, I was so glad to see your post, and so sorry about you and your husband parting ways... but can totally understand why you did it... we need to find our own peace and contentment, and I believe we must follow where we are led. I have been in a similar situation, or I should say I WAS in a similar situation about 10 years ago, and did much praying and seeking the Lord's direction... each time I thought I should leave, he gave me a sign to stay! That happened many many times over and over again, each time I was ready to go and leave, and start anew... things happened to prevent it. So I ended up staying and here we are 10 years later, and in a much better and happier place, and now agree that we both have grown and learned and learned to appreciate each other's strengths (and accept each other's weaknesses). I know though, if I would have had any signs to go, I would have. I am so glad for you that you have your family to be with for awhile, and refuge for your soul to rest and recoup and find YOU again. I think in alot of relationships, we lose ourselves and when we are alone again, we must find that person again. I am glad for you that you have a bright future ahead and am looking forward to seeing how your new life takes shape! Hugs.. MarilynMarilyn McLeod @ Pink Paper Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13166022624714254716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-70430292766271831802020-04-06T11:08:42.756-07:002020-04-06T11:08:42.756-07:00Thank you, Barbara. You're right about prayers...Thank you, Barbara. You're right about prayers and staying busy. I talk to the Lord throughout my day and try to keep in mind that this is temporary. It's kind of exciting to think about what comes next. All in God's timing! Hugs.A Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-90924717611717059832020-04-06T11:05:18.561-07:002020-04-06T11:05:18.561-07:00It's so good to see your comment here, Anne! T...It's so good to see your comment here, Anne! Thanks for visiting, and for leaving me such encouraging words. I appreciate all you do to bring beauty and creativity into our world, and look forward to catching up with you on your own lovely blog now that I'm at a better place emotionally. Hugs.A Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-5023678531122001192020-04-06T09:51:19.687-07:002020-04-06T09:51:19.687-07:00Dear Nancy, what a time of it you've been havi...Dear Nancy, what a time of it you've been having. I can imagine how hard it must have been for you to write this post, and of course, even harder for you to live through this period of change. You're brave to share your feelings and to look to the future, to a new start with hope. Starting over isn't easy, you're right, but it's also exciting to imagine new chapters for your story.<br /><br />Our experiences don't define who we are. Those adjectives: divorced, widowed, don't define you. Life happens in such unexpected ways and yet the hard things don't negate the beautiful.<br /><br />Although this period of uncertainty is hard, it's wonderful that you get a chance to nest with your family a little bit longer before starting off on your own. Take all the time you need to heal. You trust in God's love, don't forget to follow his example and shine some love on yourself, too.<br /><br />Take good care.Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17788205597454567544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-61385923955945078082020-04-06T09:25:52.793-07:002020-04-06T09:25:52.793-07:00Hello Nancy, I started blogging again after a long...Hello Nancy, I started blogging again after a long absence. Happy to see your post. Life happens, dear girl...some of us are brave enough to admit we go through struggles that are ugly, and some want the world to believe our lives are a fairy tale. I admire your honesty, and boldness to possibly help others that might be going through similar circumstances....giving them hope for a brighter tomorrow....it's all a process. God will see you through, as you know, through each stage as you recover from the situation. Try to stay focused Heavenward, and the rest will fall into place. God has a plan for your life, sweetie. Love to you. xoDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16600235934416288679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-6935900842645479562020-04-06T08:25:28.003-07:002020-04-06T08:25:28.003-07:00Hello Nancy,
I am sending prayers.
Thank you for s...Hello Nancy,<br />I am sending prayers.<br />Thank you for sharing today, and no, you did not let us down. You are honest. Because I do the same thing. "Carla is fine".. when in honesty, sometimes I am not.<br />Sending lots and lots of love,<br />Carla<br />Carla from The Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12107829617899979937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-46590209706653182712020-04-06T07:35:24.589-07:002020-04-06T07:35:24.589-07:00So sorry to hear this; but I am glad you have your...So sorry to hear this; but I am glad you have your son's family to stay with during these difficult times. Grandkids are wonderful.<br />nannykimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09904490730187017812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-83385825797079495902020-04-06T05:40:20.228-07:002020-04-06T05:40:20.228-07:00I'm sorry you are going through this. Sometim...I'm sorry you are going through this. Sometimes only prayers and staying busy helps with the hurt. I've enjoyed reading your blog over the years. I know you will put your life back together in a new and fun way - as soon as the virus gets out of the way. I hope you find some peace and go forward with a new and wonderful life. Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16894294588507668479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-24096465831704712352020-04-05T21:46:43.491-07:002020-04-05T21:46:43.491-07:00Praying for you and your peace and happiness!Praying for you and your peace and happiness!Ggeise14https://www.blogger.com/profile/17575652002525162699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-19247741178969994472020-04-05T20:49:28.771-07:002020-04-05T20:49:28.771-07:00Thank you, dear friend. My family is a great bless...Thank you, dear friend. My family is a great blessing to me, as are the many friends that have posted comments here today. God bless you. Hugs.A Joyful Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604235087317891071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6915998197494794177.post-88820169402142679802020-04-05T20:23:23.859-07:002020-04-05T20:23:23.859-07:00Hello Nancy, I am so happy to see a blog post. I l...Hello Nancy, I am so happy to see a blog post. I look forward to many more. I know what you mean by trying to be the woman that follows the rules, I was there once myself. I pray you find new joy and contentment in your new place. God has plans for you. Enjoy your family. A job will come soon enough. Sending hugs. Debbie<br />Daytona Damselhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00973995351685168211noreply@blogger.com